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Why Men Love Valentine's Day In Japan

February 11th, 2007 at 05:36 pm

While my counterparts will be spending nearly $120 and deciding between candy, an evening out with their significant other, flowers or jewelry, I'll be sitting at home relaxing without a worry in the world becasue I don't have to do anything on Valentine's Day.

I have no doubt that whoever brought St. Valentine's Day to Japan must have been a man. There's no way it could be any other way - the Japanese Valentine's Day is a dream come true for men. That's because there is nothing for men to do on Valentine's Day in Japan. Yep, you read that correctly! Men do absolutely nothing. It's the women that bring chocolate, candy, etc to the men. Speaking from a man's point of view, this is pretty darn hard to beat.

Now men don't get off completely free in all of this. I'm sure that Japanese women soon figured out that this whole deal was a bit backward compared to the rest of the world, but once it had been established, there was no way the men were going to make the switch. Instead of fighting men tooth and nail on this, women instead made up a new day - called White Day - celebrated a month after Valentine's Day. On White Day men purchase chocolate, candy, etc for women. While men would have preferred to have come out of the entire process without any obligation, they acquiesced on this one point figuring they still came out well ahead in the deal compared to men everywhere else in the world.

Men in Japan quickly realized the advantage of having White day a month after Valentine's Day because it gave them something every man needs - basic guidelines and time to prepare. First, men are only required to give chocolate back to those who actually give them chocolate. Even better, since men get to see the gift given to them first, they have a pretty good idea exactly how much effort they need to put in and what they have to spend on the return gift. This makes the entire Valentine's Day experience a lot more enjoyable (at least for men).

So while the rest of you are trying to decide whether to purchase that heart shaped box of chocolates or the teddy bear on your way home at the drugstore on February 14, I'll be sitting on the couch watching TV with a beer in hand wondering what nice surprise I'll get. Hmmmmm, maybe living in Japan isn't all that bad after all...

5 Responses to “Why Men Love Valentine's Day In Japan”

  1. boomeyers Says:

    I enjoy hearing about the cultural difference. Veddy interesting!

  2. baselle Says:

    Heh heh, if your wife is thinking strategically, she's going to give you a Hello Kitty something. Big Grin

  3. T_I_N_A20 Says:

    Woah... Valentine gifts are so cute!! I wish they have them here.

  4. Lez Save $ Says:

    Don't forget that women also make chocolate cakes and chocolate cookies for their partners here in Japan. Yummy.....now...if only we could determine who is the "lady" in my relationship....ahh...better off buying some chocolates for her just in case..

  5. Broken Arrow Says:

    Hehe, that IS very interesting. Yeah, I must say that I like their version of V-day better. Big Grin

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